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Loving Your Woman Into Submission

One day 25-year-old Keegan stood at the gate shouting harshly at his 20-year-old wife, Nadine. The couple had just gotten married four month...

One day 25-year-old Keegan stood at the gate shouting harshly at his 20-year-old wife, Nadine. The couple had just gotten married four months earlier.

Tapiwa Zuze

This drama was happening right in the eyes of Keegan’s father; a 50-year-old man. Keegan’s father moved boldly, took his son aside and said to him, “We only shout at other people to frighten them, but not to your wife!”

The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats are making her stronger and stronger every day. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets subdued. That is not true at all. Women are not changed with fear.

A woman may stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her heart. She is busy evaluating her man's weaknesses and strategize on how to subdue him for good.

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Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat up their wives flippantly at the slightest provocation. Today most of those men are now sitting old and suffering consequences of their yesteryear actions. The same women who were victims back then are now enjoying with their children today at the expense of the father. Mothers have their children's sympathy, while fathers are at the receiving end.

Let it be clear to every man that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wives'. Only love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to you without qualms. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting a coup d’état against you. One day you will sit watching her and the children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.

Almost all the fierce kings in history died before their wives. They lived all their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their enemies but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men.

The 'lion' in men does not scare women or get them to submit. It is love that conquers a woman. A woman’s emotional make-up requires love not force.

When a woman is loved, you break all her guts and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with a man who is honestly in love with her.

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Talk gently to your wife, love her, pat her, and you will win her and make your points!

Let’s stay connected well with our women!

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