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Don’t Waste Your Energy In Unproductive Anger, Emotions and Illogical Debates

It is normal for all creation to get angry! Be it people, animals, birds, snakes, and event insects; they all get angry one way or the o...

It is normal for all creation to get angry!

Be it people, animals, birds, snakes, and event insects; they all get angry one way or the other.

Tapiwa Zuze

But, ladies and gentlemen, it is unwise to spend much of one’s time harbouring anger within your heart. It destroys all your potential to achieve something better. Instead, learn to focus much on activities that feed into your purpose and mandate on the planet earth.

When you have great potential, you attract higher challenges. The devil will use people and circumstances to draw you away from your task at hand. Those people, who are mostly close relations, can make you go nuts! And it is sometimes very tempting to throw a stone of vengeance at them. You would just want to deal with them decisively. But the less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become.

Anger usually begets emotions! If you are not that strong, you may spend your entire life sobbing tears of regret. You become so much attached to the past. Probably you harbour bad emotions about how your stepfather ill-treated you, how your mother abandoned you, how your boyfriend used and dumped you, how your aunt abused you, how your pastor stole from you, and the list is endless. This again is another serious distraction that is meant to divert your focus. There are no benefits to reap from planting anger and emotions. Worst of all, some of the people who offended you have honestly no idea that they even trampled on your feelings; they are innocent and oblivious of your hurt. Some are now long dead and buried, or have since repented and are now leading genuine lives; yet you remain hooked to that hurtful past! That is being counterproductive to the realization of your own purpose and mandate!

The other area you could be losing it is through engaging in illogical debates. You could be spending too much time with a circle of friends who bring dumb debates in your vicinity. For God’s sake, how can you spend an entire day discussing women’s breasts and bums, or boys’ muscles? How can you spend a week arguing whether Jesus Christ was Caucasian, Africa, Burmese, Indian, Arabic or whatever for that matter? Such arguments are nonsensical; they are simply there to steal your most valuable resources: TIME!

You have to take it within your heart that:
Some people don’t deserve your attention.
Some people don’t deserve your emotional stress.
Some people don’t deserve your time and energy.
Some people are not worthy being part of your circle.
Some debates are not for focused people like you.
Some misunderstandings actually have to pull you down.

Tapiwa Zuze

Trust yourself fully.
Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life.
Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
Learn to accept, adjust, adapt and advance.

Have a blessed day.

Tapiwa Zuze

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