BRIEF NOTES: How To Be A Good Wife


Being a good and virtuous wife is not always an easy task and especially when you have a husband like Archie Bunker; moody and difficult and maybe even appearing to be a male chauvinist many times.

Yet, you love him dearly even though he wears on your patience.
BRIEF NOTES: How To Be A Good Wife

Step 1

Learn to stay calm and maintain your own joy. When your husband is upset, moody and fussy, it is important to realize how important it is to remain calm. A wife has the power to set the atmosphere of the home. Besides, it takes two to argue. If one remains calm, the storm will soon subside. 

Step 2 

Understand your husband's needs. Learn to read through the lines. Unfortunately, people don't always know how to communicate their feelings. He may be in need of a little affection. If not, then give him the space he needs to work through his frustrations. 

Step 3

Make sure that your house is in order. When he sees that you care and desires to make him happy; because he truly loves you, in due time, he will begin working on himself. 

Step 4

Maintain a sweet spirit. Set your mind to be a happy and joy filled wife. There's no need for you to become moody too. Your good disposition can help to encourage him to make better choices to be a happier person. Most moody people really want to be happier people, but are struggling with it. Everyone struggles with something. If you sincerely love your husband and you can deal with his moodiness, then your ability to keep a good disposition will help him as well as be a plus for your marriage. 

Step 5

Read up on books about relationships and about men. The more you understand your husband, the better you can communicate and relate to him. 

BRIEF NOTES: How To Be A Good Wife

Step 6 

Always be willing to make sacrifices for your mate. We all wish that relationships and people were perfect. Unfortunately, they are not and sometimes you have to give love and patience first before you get it back. This can be hard for many because most people these days do not believe in long-suffering and making sacrifices for others. Sometimes, good gifts arrive in burlap packages. Your husband may be a diamond in the rough. 

Step 7 

Pray and depend on God and His power to give you the grace and strength to accomplish your assignment to your husband. 

Adopted and edited by Tapiwa Zuze

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